MorningStar Independent Living Blog

Many times people put off creating a living will, also known as a health care power of attorney, because they don’t understand how important it is to have one; or they fear they are giving up too much control over their life. The medical community explains the reason you need one is to ensure you get the type of care you want when you can no longer speak for yourself. The Harvard Medical School says before you create a living will there are a few things to consider including separating fact from fiction. To start with, think about what quality of life means to you. Sometimes having extraordinary measures taken to save your life doesn’t factor in where such treatments will leave you. Having a living will can help guide your medical team on just such decisions. Some people worry if they choose to refuse certain life-sustaining medical treatments to prolong life even when death is inevitable that it will invalidate their life insurance policy. Medical professionals explain there is no rea

As the population ages, 55+ independent living communities have become a popular option for seniors around the country. The appeal includes making their lives easier by moving into a maintenance free apartment that meets their needs without giving up their independence. Today’s communities’ offers older adults security and safety as well as peace of mind knowing others are always around. Independent living communities are a place where similarly aged people in a similar time of life comfortably live among one another. Moreover, such communities solve a growing problem reported by many seniors, that of loneliness. As we grow older our social circle gets smaller as many older adults have retired from jobs that created opportunities for day-to-day contact with acquaintances and business associates. In addition, some seniors no longer feel comfortable driving, which in turn, can limit their ability to socialize. Study after study has shown that isolation becomes a bigger problem a

While we tend to think of senior living communities as offering a range of senior care services to help residents maintain their independence, and/or places with amenities and programs, there is one thing many people forget about. At MorningStar at River Oaks, we call it built-in companionship. In other words, the easy camaraderie that grows based on the spirit of friendships and community between one resident to another as well as between residents and our dedicated team and the surrounding community. Research continues to add to the growing evidence regarding the value of companionship and the benefit it offers to seniors. Studies are proving time and time again that socialization among older adults not only keeps the brain sharp, but it can even decrease the risk of developing dementia. Unfortunately in today’s society, too many older adults say they feel isolated, which also puts them at risk for depression. Experts say along with helping to keep the elderly mentally sharp, social

If you have recently been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease, you are not alone. It is estimated that more than 6 million Americans have Alzheimer’s and is the 7th leading cause of death in the United States. As a way to help families impacted by the disease, the Alzheimer’s Association provides a variety of resources and services. A diagnosis of Alzheimer’s brings with it a range of emotions. Learning that you have a disease with no cure and no way to control what is happening to you can create feelings of anger, denial, depression and resentment as well as fear. Another common emotion is isolation and the feeling that no one else understands what you are going through. There can even be a sense of relief at finding out what is happening to you and having those concerns validated. The Alzheimer’s Association counsels that it helps to try and come to terms with your diagnosis and the emotions you are experiencing as a way to help you to move forward. They explain that, “once you

In addition to assisted living, Houston’s MorningStar at River Oaks provides suites devoted to the care of seniors with Alzheimer’s and other dementia-related diseases. River Oaks is a part of the MorningStar Senior Living company, which was founded in 2003 and has 40+ communities in eleven states either in operation or under construction. At MorningStar, our approach to memory care is designed around our comprehensive program we call “Lavender Sky.” Our philosophy encourages us to walk alongside a resident as we thoughtfully enter, embrace and explore the world of dementia. With insight and intentionality, we enter our memory-impaired residents’ “purple world” to cross over the physical and emotional boundaries that would otherwise separate us. We also educate the families of those afflicted with dementia on how to follow our lead and enter too. Another important aspect of our unique methodology is to accept the diagnosis of dementia and embrace the fact (we know it is difficult)

According to the U.S. Census Bureau, 33% of women and 20% of men 65 years and older lived by themselves in 2020. Experts say living alone doesn’t necessarily mean an individual is lonely, but it often is the case. Problems contributing to loneliness in seniors are that most no longer work outside the home and social circles begin to shrink with the passing of spouses or friends, and family members moving away. The National Institute on Aging (NIA) cites studies showing seniors who say they feel socially isolated and lonely are more at risk for health problems such as cognitive decline, depression, and heart disease associated with loneliness. For many seniors the answer is moving to a retirement community where they find comfort, wellbeing and security as well as companionship. The experts at AgingCare.com say one of the biggest advantages of senior living is that opportunities for socialization and fulfillment are available right outside a resident’s door. Independent living communit

A garden full of flowers and/or home-grown vegetables is a rewarding pastime for many seniors. Not only does it offer beauty and wholesome, nutritional food for you and those you share your bounty with, but a healthier lifestyle. Experts say going outside to work in the garden is a perfect way to get exercise and enjoy nature as well as to get a dose of vitamin D. They warn to protect your exposed skin with a sunscreen of 30 SPF or higher, wear light, loose clothing, and sunglasses to protect your eyes. Be sure to take frequent breaks, stay hydrated and don’t overdo it, and avoid working outside during the heat of the day. Gardening is a great way to reduce stress and forget about your problems, at least for a while. Overall, even a few hours a week doing something as enjoyable as gardening can strengthen muscles, improve mobility and increase flexibility. Growing tomatoes and lettuce or starting an herb garden is a great place for beginners to start and are appropriate plants for cont

If you have started the search for assisted living in Pasadena, CA, you will want to include MorningStar. MorningStar of Pasadena’s all-inclusive community offers an array of luxury amenities, while at the same time, all the warmth and welcoming comforts of home. MorningStar of Pasadena provides assisted living residents carefree retirement years by providing care to help them maintain their independence, and the amenities and wellness programs to keep them engaged and looking forward to each new day. In addition, private suites are smartly designed to maximize space and include a choice of floor plans and configurations to meet a variety of preferences and needs. All have contemporary styling and safety features such as full, handicap-accessible bathrooms and emergency call systems. Our all-day dining service means you can eat when you are hungry and not according to a rigid schedule. A full salon makes it easy to get a new hairstyle, treat yourself to a pedicure or a manicure. Our f

No matter what age we are, moving can be a big deal. Whether as a high schooler changing schools, or a retiree embarking on a new chapter to an assisted living community, moving is a big deal. For older adults, a move to assisted living may include giving up a beloved family home. In this case, they probably have a whole house full of things and will need to downsize. That alone can be tough, as the person will most likely need to give up possessions they have had for years. For more on downsizing, the Internet offers a variety of suggestions to help you get started. The MorningStar at River Oaks team understands every resident’s move is unique and recognizes it for what it is – a major lifestyle transition. This is why we approach each move-in with the utmost sensitivity, and sincerely strive to nurture a good relationship right from the start. We seek to reinforce the positive aspects of community life, and do all we can to help the person embrace their new adventure. Once your fami

MorningStar of Kirkland is a part of the MorningStar Senior Living Company whose vision is “to be a company of servant-minded, purpose-driven leaders in our senior communities and throughout the world.” This means right from the start we have made a point to staff our loving home with a team who feel it is a privilege to serve and understand that seniors deserve to be treated with dignity and respect. In addition, we support MorningStar’s mission of serving others here at home and throughout the world including supporting the Alzheimer’s Association and the Casa Bernabé orphanage in Puerto Cabezas, Nicaragua. We also support MorningStar’s partnership with “Lifewater,” a non-profit organization that focuses on delivering safe water sources to villages across the globe. MorningStar of Kirkland is also guided by our company’s principles that include: Honoring God in our business practices and relationships Valuing all seniors as gifted and contributing individuals Investing generously

While memory lapses can be a sign of bigger problems, thankfully for most seniors, occasional forgetfulness is a sign of normal aging. The Mayo Clinic weighs in with good lifestyle habits and activities to help sharpen our memory and improve focus. The first recommendation is to stay active. When we engage in physical activities, it raises the level of blood flow to the whole body, including the brain. Research even links physical activity to a decreased risk for Alzheimer’s disease. Other studies find it is important to move frequently throughout the day and to try and get at least 150 minutes of moderate exercise per week. This can be a brisk walk. Cognitively stimulating exercises are another way to improve focus. Activities include things like puzzles and games, playing an instrument or learning a new hobby. Pairing mental pursuits with social activities is an easy way to interact with others and helps ward off depression and feelings of isolation, which both are linked to memory

Located in Houston’s Upper Kirby district, MorningStar Assisted Living & Memory Care at River Oaks is a contemporary 6-story building offering a range of floor plans including studio, one-bedroom and two-bedroom configurations as large 1089 square-feet. Each private suite features a kitchenette or full kitchen, in-suite washer/dryer (AL) and high-end finishes. Large windows and high ceilings provide lots of natural light. Emergency call systems and handicap-accessible bathrooms help to ensure the safety of our residents. MorningStar’s signature wellness programs and activities let residents stay as busy as they like; and you will find we have something for almost everyone. If we don’t, we encourage you to start a club or help run a class based on your interest. Activities include physical fitness classes tailored to our residents’ needs in our fitness center and craft classes in the life enrichment room. Residents also enjoy our movie nights and panoramic views from the sky terra

We know a person changes in several ways when living with Alzheimer’s disease or another form of dementia. Memory problems and confusion are some of the most commonly known symptoms, but there are other behaviors just as common that can be unsettlingly and disruptive. The Medical News Today reports on the various behavioral and psychological symptoms of dementia known as BPSDs. Research suggests as many as 97% of people with dementia have one or more of the following symptoms: agitation; anxiety; psychosis; depression, apathy, irritability and/or physical or verbal aggression. Agitation may include behaviors such as pacing, wandering, restlessness and fidgeting. Repetitive movements and sleep disturbances are also common. Understanding these changes and learning strategies to deal with them can result in better care for the patient and make it easier for caregivers to cope. Doctors are not sure why dementia patients suffer from psychosis but suggest it could be due to interruptions and

Experts suggest that a good way to reduce medical errors regarding your care or that of a loved one is to be an active partner in the process whether in a hospital setting, doctors’ office or the pharmacy. In fact, a study showed 7% of hospitalized patients experienced an event that was considered preventable which negatively affected their health. Furthermore, harmful errors in primary and outpatient health care settings are typically related to diagnoses, prescriptions and use of medicines. Mistakes associated with misdiagnosis result in delayed treatment for the real problem and having the wrong medications prescribed or supplied can cause serious complications. However, it is important to keep in mind that some medical errors are a result of patients failing to disclose all the medications they take including prescription and over-the-counter drugs. Another problem is the failure to reveal pertinent details regarding a person’s prior medical history as well as lifestyle habits s

How long has it been since you really made the effort to learn something new? As we age, many of us can get stuck in a rut. However, opening our minds to new ideas and trying new activities can provide seniors with a renewed interest in life and help keep the brain sharp. The choice of hobbies and activities for retirees is endless and includes dusting off old skills or learning something entirely new. Things like painting and drawing classes can be done in person or online. The same goes for listening to lectures, joining a book club or writing workshop, and learning a foreign language. If you need more computer skills or would like to know more about social media, join a class and get started. If you have always wanted to play an instrument, what are you waiting for? Neuroscientists and music teachers say it is never too late to learn. Scot Hawkins, a piano teacher in Silver Spring, Md., says, “Ability is low on the list of what's required for adult students. Instead, attitude —

As more and more research shows, getting enough sleep each night is important for both physical and mental health. Some studies have even reported findings of an increased risk for Alzheimer’s disease in people who routinely have sleep problems. If you are someone who has trouble getting to sleep or sleeping through the night, the US News & World Report published several tips from sleep experts to help reset your sleep clock and improve your sleep habits. They recommend beginning with reestablishing waking and bedtime rituals by going to bed at the same time each night and waking up at the same time. It may even be a good idea to eat meals at the same time. Your bedroom should be dark and use a light-blocking sleep mask if needed. Also, keep your bedroom a work-free zone. Other recommendations include avoiding caffeine after noon, spending time outdoors during daylight hours, and exercising each day. Dr. Kannan Ramar, president of the American Academy of Sleep Medicine and a pulmon