Seniors Moving to Community Living Often Have Mixed Emotions

Moving can be exhausting and many of us have mixed feelings about the change – both looking forward to a new adventure and sad to leave our old life behind. Now imagine what your parents may be feeling as they leave a familiar home for an assisted living community. The change can be even more difficult if they are going into memory care.

Experts say there are things family members can do to help ease the transition and make it a more positive experience. First, involve your loved one in the decision-making process as much as possible. Discuss the various benefits of each community regarding suites, amenities, food service and the helpfulness of the staff and administrators. Also, read online reviews from other families and residents; and take advantage of in-person tours.

Once the decision is made on a particular community, now help mom or dad decide on what to bring to their new space, keeping in mind it is probably smaller than their current home. Consider an item based on its practicality, footprint, and your loved one’s feelings toward it. Be sure to include personal mementos such as family pictures and a few of their most cherished treasures he/she has collected through the years. Other furniture and items can be given to family members, sold or donated to charity.

Experts advise adult children to play an active role in helping a loved one settle into their new home and to remember it is an emotional adjustment. In-person visits help as do phone calls to let them know you are still thinking of them.

At MorningStar at River Oaks, we are experienced in helping residents make a smooth transition to our community by working alongside our residents and their families to listen to concerns and help solve any problems. MorningStar’s assisted living residents enjoy stylish suites, all-day dining, wellness programs, activities and amenities including a theatre/chapel, fitness center, salon, bistro and sky terrace. For those suffering from Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia, we offer a distinct area staffed by a compassionate team of trained caregivers.

Please contact us to learn more about our exceptional senior living in Houston. Not only are we happy to answer any questions you may have but our website provides information on our company’s history, vision, and mission.

MorningStar takes tremendous pride in the reputation we have earned for excellence and authenticity since our inception in 2003. We believe the human capacity to grow, to learn and to contribute is ageless; and we act upon that truth daily, as we care for, inspire, and love the residents under our roof. Contact us for more information about the finest senior living Houston offers.

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