How to Help a Parent Transition to Assisted Living

No matter how old we are, change can be difficult and the bigger the change, the more challenging. For the elderly, change can signal an end to a way of life they are most familiar with and cause a range of emotions from mourning a loss of independence to feelings of helplessness. Hopefully it also offers a spark of excitement at starting a new adventure.

If you are an adult child of a senior who is in the process of transitioning into assisted living, experts offer tips to get through any rough patches. To make the move more successful, they recommended working as a team: the senior, the family, the new home and their doctor. As family members, it is important to recognize how intimidating the move can be in the eyes of your loved one as they are moving to a new environment with all new people. Experts say the adjustment period typically lasts for 30 to 90 days.

A senior can make it easier on themselves by keeping an open mind and realizing it will take a little while to adjust. Try to get out and enjoy your new environment rather than staying behind closed doors in your room. If you are unsure how something works, ask questions. If you are having problems getting answers, talk to the management or ask your family to intervene.

Families can help the senior to set up their new apartment with familiar items and family memories including pictures and other favorite knick-knacks. Once they are settled, experts say don’t desert them but don’t overdo the visits. Allow them to find their own way and perhaps start making a few friends. If the community has family-friendly activities, join in when you can.

MorningStar at River Oaks offers all-inclusive assisted living in Houston’s desirable River Oaks community. Smartly-designed private suites maximize space and include floorplans in one and two-bedroom configurations. Amenities include all-day dining, full salon, fitness center, and wellness programs and activities. A sixth-floor sky terrace and lounge is designed to enjoy the view, watch the sun set and relax with friends. Other outdoor amenities include courtyards with a fireplace and BBQ and strolling paths. As dementia care specialists, Reflections Neighborhood provides a compassionate home for those suffering from Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia. We are now open; contact us to inquire about Move-in Specials and availability.

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