Family Members are Impacted by an Alzheimer’s Diagnosis

The Alzheimer’s Association explains Alzheimer’s is a disease that not only affects the individual but robs family members of their loved one. As the disease progresses, it takes away more and more of the person and the family begins to mourn the loss. While grief has different phases including denial, anger, guilt, sadness and acceptance in no particular order; universally shared by most families is unease about what the future holds and what to expect next.

Hope is a powerful human emotion so denying the disease is a coping mechanism for some as they try to convince themselves their loved one will get better or not reach the level of devastation experienced by many suffering from the disease. Others may refuse to recognize the changed behavior and make excuses for it.

Spouses and significant others may experience anger as they feel abandoned by the person and frustrated at their inability to do anything about it. They may also feel resentment and overwhelmed by caregiving duties but experts say it is important to be honest with yourself. Recognize you need more support and ask for it.

Other feelings of grief include guilt. A person may worry they have not done enough or are not visiting often enough. While unrealistic, spouses may feel guilty they are still able to enjoy life while their wife or husband is no longer able. If a caregiver is not getting enough support, they may even experience thoughts about wishing the person would die or go away. The Alzheimer’s Association says it is important to get the help and support you need and to accept your feelings and remember grief is part of the journey.

The newly opened MorningStar at River Oaks epitomizes the finest assisted living in Houston, TX. Our beautifully designed community also appeals to independent seniors who appreciate the idea of living a stress-free lifestyle while knowing care is there whenever they may need it. For those suffering from Alzheimer’s and other dementia-related diseases, Reflections Neighborhood provides holistic memory care, including giving support to residents’ families members through this difficult journey. Visit our website to discover how MorningStar at River Oaks is a cut above other seniors living in Houston, TX.

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